Cacarosa/ i am sure your partner will understand, he must know that women go through this change,
You could explain that if you don't feel on top form that you are ging through the menopause, and if you seem a bit not your usual self that is why,
I often wonder if women do actually say anything to their partners, or wait until it is mentioed about being a bit grumpy etc
I don't have a partner now so i don't know how i would deal with it,
I think bringing it into conversation, would be better than them wondering what the heck is up
If you say his previous partner was so gorgeous and you lack confidence ,why? he must love you, and see qualities in you that he didn't find in her,and yes boobs do get bigger, mine are much bigger than they were once,even though i wasn't flat chested, they continue to grow, and i don't want them to grow anymore, as i am only small, just under 5ft,or i will end up top heavy,
I think the HRT has something to do with it maybe, but you don't see many flat chested older women do you?