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Menopause symptoms: Psychological

Psychological information contributed by:
Dr. Anita Houghton. MBBS. MSc. MFPHM.

Psychological symptoms of menopause

Psychological and emotional symptoms are common around the menopause, but the causes are complex. Anxiety, depression, sadness, difficulty concentrating, overreacting to minor upsets, anger and irritability, forgetfulness and mood swings are all typical psychological problems. Hormonal changes are thought to be responsible for a proportion of these symptoms, but it is hard to be certain which symptoms are hormonal in origin, and which are due to other changes in a woman’s life around that time. Studies indicate that many cases of depression, for example, relate more to personal circumstances than to the menopause itself. Studies have also indicated that women who are generally happy with their lives experience fewer problems during menopause.

Situations and life events that tend to crowd into women’s lives when in their late forties and fifties include:

Other psychological challenges can include beliefs about no longer being useful, distorted body image, fear of death, insomnia, feeling ‘unemployable’, low self worth, and of course, the physical symptoms of the menopause itself.

While hot flushes are physical symptoms, much of the distress that women experience due to hot flushes is caused by the negative thoughts that they engender. Whenever a person experiences a physical symptom, they do so at two levels: the actual experience of the symptom, and their thoughts about it.  Although up to 85% of women experience hot flushes during menopause, the degree of distress experienced varies considerably from woman to woman, and this variation cannot all be put down to symptom severity. While one woman may consider hot flushes to be a relatively minor inconvenience and an unfortunate consequence of menopause, another may associate them with growing old, being out of control, or even shame. The first kind of woman will find it easier to live with the symptoms, while the other will tend to fight and resent the symptoms and as a result suffer terribly. These complex relationships between body and mind make it very difficult to assign causes of psychological distress. 

Management and treatment of psychological symptoms

Whatever the psychological symptoms and whatever the cause of those symptoms, the important thing to realise is that they are real.  There is a tendency in our culture to give credence to problems where a physical cause can be found, but to dismiss those which seem to be purely psychological in origin. In reality, distress is distress, whether physical or psychological, and needs management and care.
Because of the lack of clarity about the cause of psychological symptoms, choice of treatment is not always easy and will always be a very individual decision.
Possible approaches to treatment include:

Suggested reading
There is an excellent series of books based on cognitive behavioural techniques, including:
Overcoming Depression by Paul Gilbert
Overcoming Anxiety by Helen Kennerley
Overcoming Low Self Esteem by Melanie Fennell
Overcoming Anger and Irritability by William Davies
Overcoming Insomnia and sleep problems by Colin Espie
I Had a Black Dog by Matthew Johnson
The Worry Cure by Robert Leahy
Wherever You Go, There You are: Mindfulness Meditation for Everyday Life by Jon Kabat-Zinn
The Mindful Way Through Depression by Mark Williams and colleagues.

Dr Anita Houghton is a doctor, career coach and CBT therapist, and author of Finding Square Holes, a self help book for reviewing your working life and planning careers. 
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