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[HazelnutMilk]

I'm only 51 but still regular as clockwork - closer together and flooding but no sign of stopping. My  best friend (50) is done and dusted with it all, and my sister was done by about 50 I think. I guess I'm too early to say I'm a late menopause but I do feel like I'm a bit behind the curve.

[Taz2]

The average age to reach menopause seems to be between 51 and 55. Not sure if this means post meno (one year without a period) or just that you've had your last period by 55. I don't think you are behind the curve. I was still having fairly regular periods at 53 having had peri symptoms for four years including nine months with no periods before they began again. I started HRT at 53 so I don't know when I'd have stopped natural periods.

Sorry that you are having flooding. The fact that your periods are now happening closer together is a sign of peri menopause though.

Taz x 

[SarahT]

I think it is slowly becoming accepted that ages of menopause do not always fit the text books, both in early and late meno.

In my experience 51 seems reasonable to still be peri. I am almost 57, which is quite unusual it seems. And get pms and sometimes spotting ( am on mirena so no real periods) every 4 weeks without fail. No sign of finishing or even becoming erratic.  My sister was 58 and had erratic periods before finally becoming post meno.

It is hard not to compare with other women and their own experiences. I get very frustrated \ angry that most of my friends had all finished by 50!  But like Taz, I don't think you are behind the curve. It's gotta stop sometime,  but that doesn't help us still going through it. Watch your iron levels maybe if the flooding continues.?

Take care x

[ACP]

Hi all, I would really appreciate some advice please. I started sequential HRT when I was 52, with fairly regular periods.  I'm now 55 but still have a regular period every month on day 8 of the progestogen. I don't know whether I should swap to continuous H.R.T now I'm over 55? I don't know whether It's a period or just a withdrawal bleed, so not sure if I can move from sequential to continuous yet

[sheila99]

I think you could try it if you want to but if it was me I'd leave it a bit longer. As you bleed on day 8 perhaps it's more likely to be your own period. If you use utrogestan the 25/28 routine can be useful in late peri.

[shrosphirelass]

I was still having fairly regular periods age 57 when I went on sequi. I changed to conti 2 years later due to headaches and wanting more hormonal stability. However, since then I'm now age 62 I have had frequent episodes of bleeding, cramping etc. The menopause clinic said it may be breakthrough bleeding as I may not have been menopausal when I started the conti regime. None of the gynae's would countenance that I may not be menopausal at 60 + and each episode of bleeding they wanted to investigate.

Anyway, just to warn you don't be surprised if you do get episodes of bleeding. The disadvantage of this is that they may be irregular unlike the sequi regime.

You can try and see, you could always swap back if your GP agrees. Good luck

[Hannahlou]

I am 55 and still having periods. The last couple of months they are every 2 weeks. I’m yet to miss a period.

Can’t wait for the end of periods, I  I’m aware that other symptoms can get worse though.

The only other symptom I have at the moment is anxiety which I never used to have

I’m so glad I was pointed in the direction of this thread and no longer feel alone being this age and still having periods

[DottyD68]

Hi ACP,

You situation sounds similar to mine. I was peri when I started HRT at 53. Still having periods so synced sequi (gel & utrogestan 14/28) to my period pattern. After a few months my bleed would occur during the utrogestan phase. I assumed it was my own period breaking through and not a withdrawal bleed. The medics did not voice concerns, however at regular intervals from age 54 they have encouraged/insisted I move to conti. I tried but did not get on with continuous utrogestan so reverted back to sequi which was ok (not perfect and with previous breakthrough/withdrawl bleeds). It was only when i read somewhere that the bleeds could be because the utrogestan was not being absorbed and the bleeds were early withdrawal bleeds not my own breakthrough bleeds I became concerned that the utrogestan was maybe not providing me with adequate opposing protection. At 55 I decided to have a break from HRT for 3 months to see "where I was". My symptoms returned so I wanted to go back on HRT and under pressure from GP started a new conti regime on patches.

Whether it is because the progesterone in the patches suits me better or because my own hormones don't seem to be fluctuating as wildly or because I am now meno (who knows!), things seem to be more settled after 3.5 months. I am now nearly 56. I had a bleed after a month and a phase of very light spotting after 2 months which I believe is common when on a new regime so no idea if it was my own breakthrough bleed or not.

If you are happy to stay on sequi and not under pressure from GP to move to conti then I would stay on it for now. I believe from this forum there is a very very small risk increase of build up of endometrial lining if you are meno on sequi, which is why GPs want to move to conti and 55 is the meno age their guidelines state. If you want to try conti and don't get on with it you can always go back to sequi. The guidelines are very black and white but the reality is not and not everyone is meno at 55 as other ladies have stated.

Hope you get sorted.

[Clovie]

Hello, just thought I'd add to this thread.  Ive kept up with it before and found it reassuring to read.

I'm just turned 61 now, and on conti HRT, Utrogestan and Oestrogel. Been on it for 18 months now.
It was meant to stop my periods (I was on sequential HRT and flooding, and had regular periods every around 3 weeks or so)
Much discussion about how I could not POSSIBLY be having periods at my age, had to be something wrong. Despite me explaining I never missed a period, I always got PMT before these 'bleeds' and always had the usual, for me, loose joints before I bled. Same as always...
Had a scan, all was well, told I wasnt menopausal
This new conti regimen was meant to stop me bleeding.

Fast forward to now..
Nothing has changed
STILL bleeding regularly, with PMT and loose joints (I usually jar my back etc around that time)  So I know it IS a period and not just random bleeding from thick lining etc
I am taking a level playing field of hormones, not sequential, which was thought to have been making me 'bleed' abnormally.
But no. Level input of hormones now yet STILL I am having periods. My own hormones are still enough to over ride the HRT.

Anyway, every now and again I worry about it. Hence me adding to this thread.  (You can tell I am due on as my bad anxiety and depressive thoughts are so bad at this time of the month!)
Every month I hope the period isnt going to come, but no

I know next time I go to GP and mention it she will again more or less tell me I'm a freak.
i had that scan 18 month ago Im betting she will want me to have another. I have severe health anxiety so it was a huge thing for me to go for that.

Anyway, just adding to this so any other late menopause ladies might get something from it...

[sheila99]

Nowt wrong with being unique. I was still having periods at 61 though they were less regular. Stupid idea having menopause anyway, you're getting protection from your own hormones for longer and that has to be a good thing. I'd be interested to know when you stop. I've had a couple at 63 but I think I'm done now.

[Clovie]

Nowt wrong with being unique. I was still having periods at 61 though they were less regular. Stupid idea having menopause anyway, you're getting protection from your own hormones for longer and that has to be a good thing. I'd be interested to know when you stop. I've had a couple at 63 but I think I'm done now.

Hi Sheila! 

You've really got NO IDEA how good it is to read your post, to know I'm not alone!! 

My cycle is around 23- 25 days ish, regular as clockwork, so can't say 'every month'  but for the sake of this post, Every month I hope that this one is the last. I am dreading having to have more investigations, I wish they'd just stop. I was very reassured by the scan, the sonographer told me in no uncertain terms she was looking at the womb of a menstruating woman, no lining thickness, no cysts or whatever to be seen.
But that was 18 months ago...

After the scan, my GP and my consultant BOTH didnt acknowledge my losing blood as periods theyu both still addressed it as abnormal bleeding- but neither did they suggest biopsy or anything. Just left me hanging.... like a freak, or a neurotic woman who THOUGHT she was still having periods 

Anyway, I'm so glad yours have stopped now!   Who'd be a woman, eh?     Really, thanks for your reply, it really does help me not feel so alone in this!

[sheila99]

Yes, similar experience. I asked my gp if not bleeding every month on sequi was anything to worry about and made the mistake of mentioning 2 recent periods I'd had at 61. Cue panic and urgent referral  for 'unexplained bleeding' instead of my 'not bleeding' query. I've since learned to keep my trap shut . There seems to be a textbook somewhere that says everyone is meno by 54 and many medics still believe it.
  Personally I'd rather turn the clock back and have my own hormones til I die, it has to be better than all the sh*t we get from meno!

[Clovie]

Haha yes, about the textbook.

Our son is training to be a doctor and I hope to heavens that when he gets to the Obs and Gynae rotations that he is open to us outliers not being a little bit neurotic! 

[shrosphirelass]

For me being on HRT meant that I couldn't know for sure if I was menopausal but all the unexplained bleeding and symptoms led me to believe I was but no gynaes would consider it post age 60. My husband was convinvcedI wasn't menopausal from my mood and other symptoms.

I think I am probably menopausal now at age 62 and have recently had a mirena which has finally stopped the "unscheduled" bleeding.

[Jackieflynn]

Hi everyone I’m 59 still haven’t reached menopause had a period 6 months ago after reaching nearly 10 months saw my gynae who did scans all normal now 6 months later having another one albeit a lot lighter then the past anyone else similar?