My doctor insists anxiety is not a menopause symptom - she says as you get older you just get 'more like what you are'. I have to admit I have always been a glass half empty person and a real worrier, so perhaps she is right. But I had major panic attacks out of the blue last year - and I think they are related to hot flushes. Either they have gone or I have learned how to control them, as I haven't had one for a while.
I sympathise with all of you going through 'body breakdown'. My OH actually looks better the older he gets, which is really annoying as I have just got bits dropping off!