I know what you mean. We are a pair!!
I have period pain now which hopefully means I am going to have a period and then its over and done with.
Trouble is even when my mood lifts I am still suffering from the exhaustion and aches. But I am happier about !!??? The symptoms I wish I could get rid of/improve are the exhaustion, mood dips , and aches. I had the sweats a while ago where I was changing my top in bed because it was soaking and I lived through that without connecting it to the menopause.
The brain fog makes the forgetfulness worse.
I would like to feel well enough to have a social life again. when I was working I had to make a choice , if I worked I could not go out or have a hobby. No energy to do both.
PND that's no picnic either.
I just hope this meno nurse will sort me out . Sometimes crap is still crap even if you put a bow on it.

Peppermintyxx