Stellajane, it did get better last year after I stopped my short stint on HRT (first one was kliovance with norethisterone, then I changed to femoston but that didn't control any of my symptoms and the shedding carried on). It got better, then it got bad again when I started estrogel and utro, but got even worse without utro. I know what you mean about the stresses, but it just seemed too coincidental that both times I tried HRT, the shedding went crazy, but then they also say that HRT does stress our bodies too as it causes hormonal changes. We'll see how it goes in a few weeks time.