Hello Cassie, happy new year. The symptoms you describe do seem to accompany menopause. The symptoms you describe started for me at 38. Mine was caused by vaginal atrophy and adding testosterone to my regime, plus VA treatment means my bladder is improved but still niggly.
If you see your GP to check for atrophy or GSM as its now called, the guidelines say that whilst atrophy isn't always visible when examined internally, it can still be present. Mine was dismissed for years because apparently there were no visible signs in spite of having all the symptoms. Hope that helps.