Hi Rhm,
Firstly welcome
I had a full hysterectomy last November, with ovaries removed.
I was in hospital 5 nights and was very well cared for during that time. Upon waking, I was sore, but not in pain.
By day 3, I was up and out of bed, sitting in a chair. Day 4, I was waking up and down the corridor. They do handle the bowel, so expect a fair bit of wind and a temporary change to your bowel habits.
My scar is neat and hip to hip. First few days, I pottered and rested a lot. My appetite was reduced for a week or so, but soon returned.
Each day I grew stronger and more mobile. Six months on and I’ve regained all my energy. Today I’ve been up and down ladders cleaning windows, gardening, jet washing etc etc.
I am not allowed oestrogen due to a health condition, but I’m sure you will be offered HRT ( unless it’s unadvisable?). If not, you may have to either seek out a menopause specialist or tackle each symptom individually ( hard work but doable!).
You will feel normal post surgery, yes. It is major surgery and you do need to allow yourself at least 3 months recovery. Some hospitals send you home with a fit note for work.
Even if you feel well after surgery, please don’t overdo it. You are still healing internally.
Take an extra long phone cable into hospital with you, a straw to drink from, snacks, water and gum/ mints / sweets ( you can get a really dry mouth!).
Best of luck 🤞
Any further questions, just ask 🙂