I switched my dr recently bc I found her to be too intrusive into my private life.
Long story short my ex husband left me when I was 9 months pregnant with my son who is now 13.
I was 39 at the time. Since his birth I have never dated nor had any desire to go out with anyone. My life has been about my child and my career.
My dr constantly pushed me to begin dating and made odd claims that it would be good for me medically, emotionally and physically.
I just turned 52 and still have no desire to date. However at my last and final appointment with her she was making a joke about not having to do another HPV test bc she knows my status is still the same.
I found it very unprofessional in many ways. I can take jokes like anyone else but just did not understand this pressure to start a relationship with anyone. She argued that I’m teaching my son that I am reliant upon him. That’s the furthest thing from the truth. I’m showing him that I can be independent.
Am I wrong to switch drs just bc of this? She otherwise did a good job. She just became invasive (yes I know ironic choice of words). 🤷🏻♀️
