Hi, we talked sensibly, no shouting but lots of listening. A few couples we are friendly with have similar Stress (with capital S) so maybe I was hasty when I started this thread a few weeks ago. Thanks for listening to my worries and helping me through this tough time.
Vikki, I know how you feel after a long marriage, could you have a trial separation? That way you don't have the pressure of feeling guilty. If being single after some time turns out to be what you do want, you will feel stronger and more able to make life-changing decisions. I'm guessing you are 45/50? You have loads of time left to be that shining girl again - single or together.
Good luck xx