Hi, I can't help with a lot of this as my circumstances were very different. I had heavy bleeds due to fibroids for about 8 years. I had a hysterectomy earlier this year which, for me, was the best thing ever.
I had anemia on and off throughout and always felt dreadful. I'm wondering if your downturn may be anemia related if you have had blood loss? A blood test will show this.
Could you speak to the Samaritans? I know they won't specialise in your issues but you could speak to them immediately.
Sorry I can't be more help, I'm sure somebody with better advice will be along shortly x