Thanks all.
Thank you Herdwick that is reassuring, it is such an alarming symptom and has totally wiped us out to be honest. I suppose what worries me is he does have slightly enlarged prostrate but his psa has a,ways been very low so they've never looked into it. My mind is going into all the dark places now but I'm trying to control my anxiety.
Thanks Birdy for saying you can relate to it all. Even though he absolutely does my head in at times lol, I would never wish him harm and despite my moaning would be lost without him . I hate seeing him sad, he is such a jovial person , I can see the worry in him.
Yes Lanzalover we really could live without this, the first time we kissed and caressed in 5 years ended in a massive fright and upset, I feel cursed but I try not to think like that or I may as well jump off a cliff !
CLKD - tomorrow he has his BMI and general health and then week Wednesday he gets his bum examined, why he has to wait a week I don't know. He's been referred to urologist as a precaution so god knows how long that will take p. He had loads of bloods and they were ok.
Just could really live without it all as I'm sure you can understand x