Has anyone taken the gel and found it hasn't been absorbed? I've been using it now for about a month and seem to have every symptom of low estrogen, which seems impossible. I'm using 3.5 pumps of gel which is almost the same as the estrogen in Qlaira on the just estrogen tablets and I didn't have any problems with that. My joints ache, I could sleep for 15 + hours a night, vaginal dryness, no lubrication, sore gums, loss of bone density in my mouth. i wondered if it's possible for the gel to not be absorbed, or is that really unlikely?