I applaud the man for coming here and trying to get some info.  Hopefully he'll encourage her to join and we can be of some help but right now this is a woman only forum. 
I'm old school, I appreciate women only spaces,  they're getting rarer by the day but acknowledge that the world is changing and  if man pretends to be female and joins,  we won't know.  Equally a woman could join and read posts with her husband and there's nothing we can do about it.