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Author Topic: Confused (again!)  (Read 2372 times)

Annidav

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Confused (again!)
« on: September 15, 2016, 12:52:42 PM »

hello ladies - I feel quite silly posting this but I really am quite confused - I think.

I have never actually been tested nor has menopause ever been explained to me by GP so everything I know is due to this site or Google! 

I had thermal ablation several years ago - maybe 6-7years ago and sterilisation at the same time and haven't had a period since so that means I am post menopause doesn't it??

The thing is I started HRT three months ago but I have to say that the hot flushes/sweating have got worse since I have been taking HRT....other things have improved - the insomnia is not half as bad unless I am particularly worried about something; I am generally calmer but I don't know if that is because of the HRT or the propranolol which I still take; I do still get anxious if there is something in particular bothering me.

So my question really is, if I am post menopause I have read some stuff which says symptoms ease post menopause, in particular the hot flushes - but mine are definitely worse....so should I be on HRT if post menopause (I thought post menopause meant you have gone through it and have come out the other side??) -now see I am confused!!     
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littleminnie

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Re: Confused (again!)
« Reply #1 on: September 15, 2016, 01:09:20 PM »

The flushes are definitely worse post menopause, I put up with them for 3 years since my last period then went on HRT.
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Annidav

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Re: Confused (again!)
« Reply #2 on: September 15, 2016, 02:07:19 PM »

Hi Menomale - the latter
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Annidav

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Re: Confused (again!)
« Reply #3 on: September 15, 2016, 03:02:22 PM »

 ;D :D :D  ;D Joy!!
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Tinkerbell

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Re: Confused (again!)
« Reply #4 on: September 15, 2016, 10:37:13 PM »

My 80 year old mother still complains of hot flushes...apparently she resorts to sleeping in the nuddy
Some nights :o
 
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Dana

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Re: Confused (again!)
« Reply #5 on: September 16, 2016, 05:50:08 AM »

There really isn't any "coming out the other side" with menopause. You will be (post) menopausal for the rest of your life. However, the symptoms may improve over time, but there is no time frame for that. It could be a few years, or it could be 20-30 years.
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Hurdity

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Re: Confused (again!)
« Reply #6 on: September 16, 2016, 04:43:43 PM »

Hi fiftygirl

Sorry to hear your flushes have got worse - and especially since starting HRT.

What type are you taking?

Just to clarify - it is the term "menopausal" which is inaccurate and liable to confusion. You are either menstruating normally in your reproductive stages, or you have entered the peri-menopausal transition, or you are post-menopausal. Menopause is the date of the last period - or when the ovaries last ovulate - but defined as 12 months without a period - even though some women do ovulate again after more than 12 months has passed. After you have reached menopause ( the last period/ovulation) you are then post-menopausal although medically this starts from 12 months after the last period since it can only be determined in retrospect, so medically the peri-menopausal transition last for a year after menopause is reached if you see what I mean!!!

Many women use the term "peri-menopausal" to mean any changes they notice in their periods right up until they stop, but medically this is defined as starting when the cycle changes by more than 7 days from one to the next. Changes do begin to occur earlier but this is known as the late reproductive stage because ovulation is still more or less regular, even though pms often gets worse.

A bit of a digression - but it does mean that if you have an ablation ( or if women have a Mirena) and periods stop - then you do not know when you reach menopause because you haven't got the cycle changes to tell you. Blood tests are inaccurate because FSH varies so much and can go into the post-menopausal range even while still peri-menopausal.

In your case therefore - your flushes have started presumably because you are entering peri-menopause and I would think the fact they are getting worse means your HRT dose is not high enough? Is it possible to increase?

Also - have you had your thyroid tested and other general blood tests as a baseline - quite important at this point in life just to rule out other problems and deficiencies?

As Dana says - once you reach menopause then you will be post-menopausal for the rest of your life - but in your case you won't know when this is!

Hurdity x
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