It's not what suits me, it's more what my hair is prepared to do! I've had the same hairdresser for many years. I've seen him through divorce, new relationship, lung cancer, recovery and taught his kids. He now cuts my DH's hair (chance to talk football) and used to cut my children's hair. He knows it's pointless in trying to persuade my hair to do what he or I want, just have to let it do it's own thing. Stubborn hair, but at least I have hair! Plus my hair has retained it's colour and when I do eventually go grey, I shall be prepared to do so gracefully.