It is nice as she's 88 and who knows

and to be fair, her and Dad gave us a Lovely Wedding

……. the 3 Valium the day before helped

When first married they would travel to where ever we were living to take us for a meal …….. then time lapsed and we tended to spend it on our own, 10 years ago we went to Dornie and spent 4 lovely days on Skye. Birthdays are usually spent together alone

We were engaged on my 21st and again, her and Dad gave 2 lovely parties - I remember having acute anxiety attacks that weekend though

Your DD has made up her mind ……… maybe a meal out before/after?