Well I wasn't looking forward to Xmas. Last one was dreadful and the year before worse, it was hell on earth. I finally ended my abusive relationship in August which was horrendous and have watched in the last few weeks folk getting all ready for Xmas. The usual wind down days and asking what everyone was doing so I made up my own social calendar, when in fact I was barely doing anything
I have been doing long walks with the dog, and spending time at the stables. I am utterly broke and sat in my bed, with my dressing gown on keeping warm I can barely afford my fuel bills. I'm supposed to meet two friends for lunch but said I will for coffee. I told them to text me to say what they are doing, if it's lunch I will have to abstain. I'm going to see family on Sunday, doing one trip as I have to watch my fuel too. I made a deal with them all not to buy me anything, but if they did, practical stuff like socks, or food for my dog.
I have planned things for next year so as to not slip into depression. I am doing a charity walk next year, and a visit to my friend in Ireland and then a weekend away in Scotland with a couple of friends
I am dreading new year eve, as I keep hearing my ex parting words, no one wants you, you have no friends, you will be sad and lonely, you are a whore, a piece of sh1t and a mess.
I know I will pick up again, but sometimes you just get fed up with picking up pieces