Well, gp visit went ok-felt he was better than previous gp.
Discussed the fluoxetine,-hot flushes, not sleeping, leg cramps etc -and he did say I could increase the fluoxetine to 60mg -from 40mg, alternatively try a sister drug, try another medication (one which was used for blood pressure in the past), or try gabapentin (not sure on spelling-used to treat epilepsy), all known to aid hot flushes.
I have opted for the sister drug-which I will try start next week-when I have weened off the fluoxetine, my legs are incredibly painful -GP said was all menopause symptoms and did not think the pains were a side affect from the fluoxetine.
Anyway, got to se ehow I go on now-last night was awful in bed though -still awake at 2.30am, had no more than two hours-feel really exhausted.
He said from his experience he only knows one person who has had relief from herbal medications and therefore would not recommend anything specifically.