Hi donnacrichton
What a tough time you are having. You are in the right place to get support.
There are lots of ladies who really suffer with anxiety and if you have an early menopause this can be difficult to manage.
You say you have a Mirena - is this still in place? Have you tried Oestrogel for the oestrogen part? Oestogel allows you to adjust the amount of oestrogen you dose each day - from 1-4 pumps per day and if you really need 4 pumps per day you can apply this 2 in the morning and 2 at night to ensure a steady dosage. I have to say that 4mg seems awfully high!! I was peri meno from my mid 30s but never used more that 2 pumps of oestrogel per day. When I tried patches I need feel very strange as I felt I was over dosing to start with and getting very little oestrogen later on, however, many women get on with them well. You see we are all different and it takes time to find the right HRT balance. Through the peri stage the hormones tend to fluctuate as well.
At 42 you need to have HRT to protect your heart and bones - at least until your early 50s but even beyond if needed.
There can be other reasons for flushes and sweats e.g.thyroid function? Have you been tested for this?
A colleague of mine at work was taking HRT and still getting flushes and anxiety and she has now been given one of the ADs that help with meno symptoms and she is feeling so much better. Look under Prescribable non-HRT under the green font headings to the left of this screen - perhaps print this out and show this to the GP who may be able to replace one or more of your current ADs for one of these which may help better?
Here is the link:
http://www.menopausematters.co.uk/prescribed.phpIt's good to read up all the info under all the heading to the left of this screen to get fully clued up.
Dr. Currie who created this site has recently bought out a book which could be useful.
Hopefully others will be along soon with help and advice.
Keep us posted.
DG x