I'm at that early stage, where you read lots, buy random things, unsure yet(too early) what's doing what. I'm on kalms nights dancinggirl. But yesterday took a red clover for first time. Decided not to mix things last night. Didn't take kalms, had awful night. Just had a rare two hr nap to make up for it, was a normal nap. Got cod liver oil, kalms, take statins (no choice) introduced red clover. Who takes red clover? Intrigued to hear your views. I'll go down hrt route if and when I need to. Symptoms very bearable at present. Libby