Hi
I've been swithering about posting as I don't want to sound like a moaning-minnie, but here goes.
Age 51 I had irregular peroids, awful mood swings, hot flushes all the time day and night and very understanding GP put me on Prempak C. All symptons disappeared and I was happy again. 4 years later a very close relative died and my boss at work changed. My emotions were all over the place and I was very unhappy, stressed and couldn't function properly so was signed off.
To cut a long story short I saw a herbalist whilst off sick and wish I hadn't. He told me HRT was poison - did I want that in my body? I came off all meds (HRT, ADs and pain killers for a degenerative back condition, result of a car accident where I was trapped in the car and driver was killed). Fast forward to 2+1/2 years later and we have relocated to a new area 300 miles away and I have new, fabulous GP. I started back on HRT last year (Estelle Solo, Prempak is no longer made) but it was only helping daytime hot flushes, so I moved onto Estelle Duet 3 months ago but it has made things worse. No daytime flushes but night sweats are nearly unbearable, I'm crying very easily,feel very dry and itchy "down below" , have no sex drive whatsoever and I'm constantly in a bad mood.
I am now 58 and post-menopausal. I have an appointment with a new lady GP tomorrow and plan to ask her if I can change HRT to something more similar to Prempak. I did read about one HRT which is very good for increasing female sex-drive - has anyone heard of that? I can't remember where I read it as the amount of information on HRT is so vast.
Lorraine Kelly put it very well and said "I feel no joy in my life although I have it all, daughter doing very well at university, a fulfilling job and comfortable home but I always feel down". After her GP altered her HRT (patch) she said she immediately felt the joy come back into her life and she could appreciate good things again, and stop crying!