Thanks for your reply, my son has had a bit more luck, financially, hopefully will be sorted soon,
I see him every day, imake a point of ringing or calling on him, but i always check first if he would like me too, he has made me a meal tonight, and i think he needs more company,
The trouble is most of his friends are drinkers, and he has an alcohol problem which doesnt help, he is getting help with that, but when friends who also drink call it puts him back,
Forgot to say this tax credits lark is ridiculous, his MP contacted them and received a letter back, a copy of which he sent to my son, in it whoever wrote this letter has referred to him as mrs[ name] and her, not him
Also changed the year and amount ,
Re,this relationship, has been about equal really until recently,
It is only since he has been having the treatment that he has been different,
He was bothered about the HT treatment ,and how it would affect him
He said the last time i saw him that he probably wouldnt see me as much because of treatment and "summer being a busy time" whatever that means, gardening usually,, although he did say Radiotherapy can make people tired, so that might be part of it, until he sees how he feels but anyway,i am just leaving it up to him now, so will see how it goes, i dont worry as much as you seem to think, or at least i dont say much to him about it, he told me not to worry, as he doesnt
Im sure he isnt as cool about it as he says,but who knows, he wouldnt say i think
He will probably just turn up out of the blue, as he has done sometimes when there has been a bit of a lull as if nothing has changed
I am just going to leave him to it, the ball is in his court so to speak
