Hi all
I am new to this site, sorry if this post is so long  ..... I had a total hysterectomy nine years ago and went straight into surgical menopause.  I was never offered HRT.  
I have suffered with hot flushes with aura ( I know when one is coming as I feel nauseous & weak/faint) then the heat rises.  I also suffer with brain fog, bloating, anxiety, depression & lightheadedness. 
I suffered with anxiety before I had an hysterectomy & I took antidepressants from 2003 to 2012.  In the end I took myself off them as the weight I gained on them really depressed me.  I went from a slim size 14 to a size 18/20. 
So I have been suffering with the hot flushes etc for 9 years!  Hoping they would go away.  
I went to see my Doctor a few weeks ago and she mentioned taking HRT.  But I have a sister that has had breast cancer and there is a great deal of heart problems in my family too.  Both my parents, my brother, his 2 son's, my grandfather, 2 aunts and a uncle.  Also I just turned 60 last month.  So you can see why I'm hesitant to take it. 
My Doctor then wrote to a Consultant in Gynaecology because of my concerns and she suggested I try 0.06% oestradiol gel 2 pumps daily.
I hear so many conflicting views.  Some gain weight, others don't, some women feel great on it, others don't etc.  
I've put up with it for 9 years, maybe I should ride it out?  I'm so confused. 
I'd like to add that 2 years ago I had my thyroid checked and was told it was border line.  I am due to have it checked again next week.  Should I wait to see what those results are before starting HRT?  If I decide to go ahead.