"Or just accept that they are part and parcel of growing older"
I understand where Bramble is coming from.
TBH prior to getting HRT, I was at that point, "just accept"
But something in me and partly something my DH said Snapped me out of it.
Why should I accept it and what am I doing? Surely my quality of life had to be better than where the next Loo stop was???
I was down and letting it get the better of me.
For me it was not easy to go with HRT and the doc didnt help me on that front.
I feel sad also when others are forced to change because of a doc with a different agenda to their patient.
Its not the doc who has to live with the pain, lack of comfort, sleeplessness, sweats, flush and even the dreaded VA.
Its especially sad when someone has been thriving till that point.
I hope that your feeling a bit better soon but as Dr Currie mentioned in the article I pointed to you "its your choice!".
Bottomline is that the Doc is there to do what you want not the other way around ...