I've been browsing here for a few weeks and am finally taking the plunge and saying hello to you all.
I'm 48, think I've been peri for a couple of years. I have a long history of depression on and off and came off my latest AD meds in December 2013. Was OK for a good few months but have been declining all summer to the point where I went to my (excellent older female) GP a while ago and picked up my Elleste script. I'm almost at the end of the oestrogen phase and do feel a bit better - not as hot and sleeping less badly. But I'm horribly sad and weepy, getting angry and paranoid with my poor partner and feeling really quite insecure and desperate at times.
I think my take on the hormone fluctuations and their effect on our emotional worlds is that hormonal imbalance strips layers from us and reduces or even removes our emotional resilience. Situations that, while hard to bear, we'd have managed previously now floor us and we can't cope. Does this resonate with anyone else? Or do you think it's all down to hormones alone? I've got a lot on my plate at work and in my relationship and from my family history which I'm still working through. But the hormonal depletion has seemed to be the last straw for me and I'm not coping well with any of it. I'm going back into therapy again next week as a result. I hope that, once the HRT kicks in properly, I'll feel stronger again and less like I'm losing my mind. I'm frankly surprised that not more peri/menopausal women aren't sectioned/make attempts on their lives. I know I've felt myself to be in that realm recently. It's incredibly distressing. And it's surely not just me. Is it?
I'm looking here for support, suggestions and the benefit of others' experience. I really, really don't want to go back on the ADs; I have terrible insomnia with them and I'm not really "me" when I take them (although, at the moment, being me is awful. I really am hoping that will change with the HRT.).
Looking forward to reading your replies. Thanks x