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Taz2

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Re: HRT--good or bad?
« Reply #525 on: September 13, 2011, 08:06:40 PM »

You have got thirteen months to practice then to reach your peak of 51!

Taz x
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Bette

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Re: HRT--good or bad?
« Reply #526 on: September 14, 2011, 06:42:58 AM »

And I've got 6 months left!  :parti:
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Marnie

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Re: HRT--good or bad?
« Reply #527 on: September 14, 2011, 01:11:47 PM »

I am 52 and have just taken my first Premique tablet.  My doctor didn't want to prescribe it as he says I am too old for it, he wanted to give me anti depressants instead even though I told him I'm not depressed. I think he only gave in to get me out of the surgery.  I always vowed I would do without HRT but after struggling on for nearly a year have finally given in.  I can put up with the hot flushes but cannot tolerate the sleepless nights and random feelings of overwhelming sadness at the most inappropriate times -is this normal?  Some days I feel just like my old self and think, hey, this menopause thing isn't so bad but then the next I'm a jibbering wreck again for no apparent reason.  I used to be confident but now question everything I do, I'm not old but feel like a pathetic old woman at times. 
Someone please tell me that HRT will work and that one day I will feel something like normal again.
Help!   



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Lucky Stone

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Re: HRT--good or bad?
« Reply #528 on: September 14, 2011, 02:43:01 PM »

It's taken me a year or so but yep, HRT has worked for me and I feel something like normal again Marnie, so hang in there. I was encouraged in turn by Bette who I am sure will be along soon to comment as well.  :D
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Bette

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Re: HRT--good or bad?
« Reply #529 on: September 14, 2011, 04:12:01 PM »

I've replied on your other thread, Marnie.  ;)
Bette x
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portese

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Re: HRT--good or bad?
« Reply #530 on: September 19, 2011, 08:08:06 PM »

have just posted my saga and had one reply which meant a lot.   I can't find any other people of my age group on the forums.   Am I an oddball case or are there others out there?   I feel that in spite of trying often and hard, I keep failing.
  I also would feel it a bit difficult to ask my gp whom I like a lot, for a referral to a specialist, as one lady mentioned she had done.   I think I am too old school! 
The above saga was posted on the menopause matters forum this evening and I am seeing her tomorrow----any ideas of what how to put it to her that I would really like to go back on to my tiny dose and live with the consequences??
 
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Bette

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Re: HRT--good or bad?
« Reply #531 on: September 19, 2011, 08:58:55 PM »

Have just replied on your other thread, Portese.  :)
Bette x
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pixie

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Re: HRT--good or bad?
« Reply #532 on: September 23, 2011, 02:18:04 PM »

 My main problem was waking up every hour during the night, boiling hot and not always being able to get back to sleep.Foggy brain. . I am recently 50years and last period was 5 months ago.  I was put on premique low dose and felt I had more energy by the next day!  However, my GP said it would take 2-3 months to work. I was surprised that my GP had prescribed me this form of HRT because I am not post menopausal.  However, I have now stopped taking it after 28 days, because I started to sleep a bit better once the weather changed. Also my mother had breast cancer. :) It had not really had much time to work, but I came to the conclusion I would let nature take its cause.  The menopause comes as a shock and takes time to adjust.  I am now taking ymea and have had no return to my symptoms 4 days later.
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Taz2

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Re: HRT--good or bad?
« Reply #533 on: September 23, 2011, 05:53:54 PM »

Hi Pixie - welcome to the forum.

You are right to think you were prescribed the wrong type of HRT. You should have been given a sequential one which would give you a monthly bleed. I am glad that you are finding your symptoms easier to manage at the minute. You know that should you need  HRT in the future then it should be able to help you. Some of us find that hot sweats disappear when a period is due so you may find that your next period is about to arrive.

Have a good look around the forum  -  you will find lots of support and friendship on here.

Taz x
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pixie

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« Reply #534 on: September 24, 2011, 09:08:28 AM »

Hi Taz,

Thanks for your reply.  I will keep you posted.  I'm finding it helps to adjust to the changes by keeping informed.
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two_sore_feet

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« Reply #535 on: September 25, 2011, 07:21:46 AM »

its a question of balancing out what I know I feel like now against what any future risks are.

I'm currently reading through all the pros and cons, so as to be forearmed and prepared when HRT is offered to me.  A lot of people just think oh it's menopause, therefore you must take HRT, but it's not that simple is it?

for example, on osteoporosis:

Hormone therapy (HT) is believed to be useful in preventing or alleviating osteoporosis*. It is generally recommended for postmenopausal women who:

- Undergo an early menopause
- Have a low bone mass, as measured by a bone-density test and menopausal symptoms
- Have several other risk factors for osteoporosis, such as: a petite, thin frame; family history of osteoporosis, or a medical problem associated with osteoporosis

* osteoporosis can also be prevented by exercising, not smoking, drinking only moderately, eating enough calcium, avoiding fizzy drinks, getting enough sunshine (vit D).  Myself, I'll always prefer to get my goodness from food & a healthy lifestyle rather than pills, but maybe that's just me


While all of the risks associated with HT are not yet known, studies have shown that some types of HT may increase your risk of developing:

Breast cancer
Gallbladder disease
Blood clots
High blood pressure

http://my.clevelandclinic.org/disorders/menopause/hic_menopause_and_osteoporosis.aspx

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plus, 80% of cardiovascular (heart) disease can be prevented by good diet and lifestyle (stopping smoking, drinking moderately, taking enough exercise)

There's no real history of osteoporosis in my family & I've always been healthy & athletic.  There is a history of heart disease, but that's been down almost exclusively to smoking, and I don't.  Therefore I don't feel that HRT is for me ... I'm going to do my best to have a 'natural' change, as much as possible.  Of course, if things change or symptoms worsen, then my attitude may have to change too

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Taz2

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« Reply #536 on: September 25, 2011, 08:28:33 AM »

I think it is an individual choice TSF. If your symptoms get so bad that you can't function properly, either at work or at home, then HRT can really make such a difference that the side effects and risks no longer seem quite as scary. I was anti-HRT before I got to meno and I really couldn't work out why all these women "gave in" and used it. Surely, I thought, they can manage by living a healthy lifestyle and being positive and how bad is feeling a bit hot now and again? I failed to realise that the withdrawal of oestrogen from the body can lead to other horrible symptoms which will never go away again. It is not something that you go through and come out the other side to carry on your life as you did before. Some women, I admit, do seem to sail through it and cope with the changes but for others the vaginal dryness, constant joint aches, lack of sleep, depression and just sheer exhaustion really do make life very uncomfortable.

I started HRT four years ago and wished that I had started it sooner to be honest. I had got really low and my work suffered tremendously which meant that I was also letting down the small team I work with. In an ideal world maybe I would have been able to stop work and at least get through the more physically difficult part but it's not an ideal world.

HRT is not prescribed purely for oesteoporosis anymore. If this is your only worry then you would not be offered HRT. HRT is known to protect against bowel cancer  so I agree that it is a balancing act. Drinking alcohol also increases the risk of breast cancer - my doc said that really I should stop the alcohol if I am on  HRT as this is a double whammy but so far I still do have my evening glass of wine. Good luck in your decision making.

Taz x

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skkb

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Re: HRT--good or bad?
« Reply #537 on: September 26, 2011, 03:02:59 PM »

I can only echo everything said by Taz and Susan. Only those of us who have suffered truly awful meno symptoms that have interferred with and disrupted our lives hugely can appreciate the amazing difference in how we feel -physically and mentally (once of course you have found the script that suits). Each to their own, none of us know what is around the corner but I prefer to feel well along the journey than struggle through each day exhausted only to get to bed and stay awake sweating all night + + + all the other stuff !!
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kenny

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« Reply #538 on: October 03, 2011, 06:12:11 PM »

hi, thought i had the menopause all sorted but sadly after 6 years i am back to the beggining,,i mamaged for 3 years with herbal products, i then went on hrt as my body got too used to the herbal products,,after 3 different types of hrt i found Angelique which was fantastic, after a year i decided to go herbal again, sadly it hasn't worked,,,,today i have gave in,,back on Angelique,,,feel very disappointed but can not see any other way to stop the nervous feeling hot sweats and lack of sleep.i would be interested to hear from anybody who has been down the same route i am going on..just hope it has the great results it had a while ago,,,am i mad,,,could i have tried anything else.. carolyn aged 53 years,,,,any positive comments welcome..
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purplenanny

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Re: HRT--good or bad?
« Reply #539 on: October 03, 2011, 06:37:07 PM »

A glass of wine a day gives a higher risk of breast cancer than HRT, but because wine is a 'sexy product' that is not mentioned & certainly doesn't have warnings on the bottle labels - 'drink this and you have an increased risk of breast cancer'.
Well, I never knew that Susan! I have a glass of wine most evenings and here was I worried about taking HRT!! My decision in the end was taken by weighing up the pros and cons with all the pain killers I was taking to get through the day & night. I agree with the other ladies - better to have quality of life than drag yourself through it for longer.

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