I am really pleased to have found this site having been looking for advice from those who "know" what its like. I haven't had a period for over 2 years and tried all the alternatives for hot sweats and sleepless nights - menopace, sage tablets, isoflavines, etc etc changing the diet by eating soya, flax seeds, etc. Didn't have a lot of support from my doctor, so went to see another one at the same practice and she has been great and so I started HRT about two and half months ago after a lot a deliberation. It has been great within 3 weeks no sweats and sleep, however in the last couple of weeks I have had painful breasts a bit like before a period or when you are pregnant, they either feel tender and quite full and very firm. I am presuming this is because of adding hormones back into your system?? I have got an appointment with the doctor but would like to know has anyone else suffered with this, does it get better or continue?