Terri,
I didnt take the pill either tried 2 or 3 had terrible reactions then I went back home on leave (I was in the WRENS)
I went to my family Gp who threw 40 fits and said I could never take it
Unbenownst to me my Mum had gone on the pill in the early 60s when it first came out and had a heart atack at 32
They were very strong in those far off days in fact I remember dont ask me why 
In 69 they took nearly all the pills of the market literally overnight google it and see think they took something like 30 off
Women and young girls were dropping like flys girls coming back from the honeymoon and dieing of heart atacks it was the pill
So untill I went premeno or in fact I was in my first year of no periods it was then I took the mini pill and Ovestin cos of dry vagina
This was the time in the 90s when the HRT scare was and millions of women world wide came off it Drs wouldnt prescribe it
There was no internet no real information GPs didnt talk about meno except to say come back if you feel bad(antdepressants)
All the aches pains dizzienss headaches depression sadness weird woozzy feeling anger achy bones 
Never once put those things down to meno till I joined this forum last August I just thought I was going nuts my Mum had 7bdowns
I thought untill last year it was wonky periods hit flushes and mood swings never  thought  all the others were meno symptoms
So I never went back to the Gp about them I just carried on with the HRT cream and the mini pill
Thinking now maybe it was best I didnt know I was on my own (lady wise) I never talked about it to anyone I thought it was me
Reading now even with Av which is shite wouldnt wish that and the vanishing fanny (way too early for that)
Im glad thats all over yes I still get the hot flushes and the headaches but thats now to do with not taking the Ovestin
Maybe ignorance was bliss in my case probably right
\Suzi Q 
