Hello,
I’m feeling very lost and would really, really value some advice and opinions.
47, wasn’t particularly struggling with peri, would get reasonably regular periods, night sweats for a week prior to getting the period.
Mood not the greatest, irritable, but I’ve always been a bit grumpy/quick to temper if I’m honest!
Started trying HRT earlier in the year. Patches (evorel 50) gave me anxiety the first few days, didn’t like them. Ustrogestan for 14 days - slept well but didn’t like the aching/low mood it gave me.
To be honest I didn’t stick at them for very long.
Then a few months ago the hot flashes at night (no HRT at this point) started really keeping me awake. Urgh. Mood was low. Irritability/rage was bad - snapping at my son all the time and feeling terrible about it.
Saw a specialist who put me on ustrogestan 100 daily - they did bloods a couple of times in a couple of weeks and each time my estrogen level was super high.
Test 1. 1434 estrogen 12 progesterone no HRT.
Test 2. 2040 estrogen, 6.8 progesterone
On ustrogestan 100 daily for 2 x weeks by this test.
Specialist had prescribed estrogen gel but said don’t use it, estrogen is already super high. Said it can spike/fluctuate in peri.
So, it’s been 3 x months now of ustrogestan 100 daily. I’m permanently bloated. Normally super fit (gym 5 x a week) but just feel heavy, unmotivated and bloated. Put weight on round my stomach only. Irritation still feels pretty high. The muscle aches for the first week were almost unbearable! And I feel my hip pain has gotten worse.
I got a period a few days ago. I figured technically my estrogen should be low at that point, so tried half a pump. Did this for the last 5 days. Initially, fine - my aching hip actually felt better, think I felt slightly clearer mentally.
Now though, 5 days in, I’m waking up with hot flashes again. Insomnia. 😭
I have no idea what to do.
They’ve said I can go up to 200 ustrogestan daily. Or try it vaginally.
I know it’s trial and error, a guessing game etc….but honestly, there must be a better way?!?! Do I really have to spend 3 x months on something before deciding whether it’s helping? 3 x months for every change I implement?
I really, really hate the bloating ustrogestan gives me. I look 6 months pregnant half the time. It’s so uncomfortable.
I don’t even know what questions I’m asking you ladies to help me with really - there’s so many - do I increase to 200? Scared it’ll give me awful low mood and even WORSE bloating etc. Does the vaginal method eliminate bloating? Why is my estrogen crazy high?! Why does half a pump give me insomnia but help my hip? Arrrgggghhh I’ve no idea what to do.
Sorry for such a long and rambling post. I really hope some people will reply, I just feel lost and at this point wonder whether I should come off everything. Ready to give up.