Thank you, Sheila that's very helpful. It sounds as though my GP is therefore likely to refuse any information from Newsom, particularly in light of her comments.
And thank you Northerngirl about seeing a gynae urologist too, I wouldn't have known to do that. At least if my GP will refer me I know to make sure I will see one if those.
You've all helped me to understand what choices I have & whether, at this stage, Newsom would help. I don't think they would at the moment so I'll see where I get with the GP next week. If she doesn't want to refer me at this stage or doesn't refer me to the right specialist, then it might be a case of finding a private gynae urologist.
Thank you all again, things are much clearer now. Unlike the problems with all my bits 😆