Thanks for the hug! 🤗Yes I think you’re right sometimes both is needed. Right now each day seems the same - no sign of improvement although I had a few good days last month … I dread waking up at the moment to be honest - my GP asked if I was depressed, or anxious, I said ‘yes - about this!’ Gynae told me to speak to the pain specialist at my surgery - eh? They just said ‘what pain specialist- not got one of them’ I’m under a pain clinic for fibromyalgia but I don’t think they will be able to help with this - more estriol is probably my best bet. Got to drive on Monday and Tuesday - have got a donut seat but still dreading it. Patience isn’t by strong point - can you tell? 😂
Via a private consultant I was referred back to NHS pain clinic years ago hence my time trying gabapentin amitriptyline & pregablin for vulva pain.
Where the pain clinic may help you is a referral to a counsellor. I couldn’t have met a nicer more helpful person who gave me lots of pointers. She had arthritic hands herself.
Don’t mean to be trite in any way but maybe a sudden need with your fibromyalgia could get you back to the clinic to see someone. I push for anything nowadays via whatever route.
Must admit I stopped driving at times on gabapentin as the higher doses made me unsafe for others.
Take your head to another place if you can. Distraction does things to the brain that it then forgets the pain for a while. Concentrating on driving may help that.
All this tries anyone’s patience !