VA can bring on all sorts of pain, including the pelvic floor area, all muscles are affected by lack of oestrogen.
It won't get any better, only worse and you are delaying the inevitable, don't get to the stage where you won't be able to sit down and worse, its a horrific condition that needs treatment.
Get on top of this condition then you will be able to cope better with the other crap that comes along with aging, because there is always one thing after another.
Sorry to be a Debbie Downer