Hi ladies

This is my first post. Hope I'm not asking too many questions.
I started HRT 1 x pump estrodiol gel and 100mg utrogestan tablet daily - been on for about 5 months.
I stopped having periods about 8 years ago.
Hot flushes went away quickly with the HRT. But still have the anxiety, panic and depression.
I think I have progesterone intolerance. Taking the tablets before bed knocks me out all night and leaves me feeling groggy/ fatigued/ nauseous next day and hair is shedding.
Have tried various ways to take the the utrogestan - but not getting anywhere with them and feel utterly miserable. Basically at the end of my tether with it all.
I'm looking at completely stopping. What is the best way to do it, taper off or just stop? Or do I try another form of HRT
Sorry for all the questions and thanks so much for any help, it's really difficult to get a doctors appointment.
And I'm worried that if I go private they will just milk me with blood tests and try this and that and I'll still be the same at the end of it all.