I know, I think it’s a lot down to them not being educated on menopause and its pot luck whether you get an understanding doctor/nurse or someone who is not willing to help you at all. I was dismissed at first due to my age (37) when I first went in about symptoms as even myself I didn’t know what it was. I was at the doctors because I didn’t feel right but didn’t know why. Blood tests showed nothing wrong so I couldn’t explain it until I came across perimenopause and researched it then went back to ask for HRT. When I have my next review I’m going to ask if I can have vagifem daily and see what response I get.