I no longer wait 2-3 months, no. Experience with all this has shown me that I notice the effects of an increase within 2 weeks. I also know that I don't absorb well and I have a ways to go, to get my estrogen into the ballpark we want it to be at.
It's now reached the point, after doing this slowly for years, that I am 3 years into this and still haven't got it where it needs to be - so by this point I would rather overshoot and come back down to find the point where symptoms return, than spend so long dialling it up and suffering in the meantime. But as I get higher I will wait longer between increases because I'm likely to be approaching where I need to be.
Even my Newson meno doctor has told me I can increase every 4 weeks.
Things didn't stay as great as they began a couple of weeks ago. There has been a definite improvement generally - but still not even one single normal night of sleep. Interestingly, I'm getting more night sweats - I think because I now am sleeping deeper, that I'm not aware I'm getting hot until I get sweaty. Before, my sleep was so crap and light I would wake up and throw the covers off when I got hot. I also am quite chilled when I first get into bed, with cold feet and just feeling cold. I have a hot water bottle on my feet(!). Then I'll wake up in the night, sweating.
I increased my dose again today to 150mcg patch. Still on 10 pumps of gel (well, 6 pumps of gel and 2 sachets of Sandrena). I don't think the Sandrena does anything and I couldn't absorb above 6 pumps going by bloods - so I'm probably on 6 pumps of gel. I will stay on this dose a full month.