Thanks again for the amazing support and help around this. I've done a letter which I haven't sent yet so if anyone has time (and the will as it's very long) to check it over I'd be really grateful. If not no worries. This is mark two - the first one was a bit angry

"Dear Doctor/s,
Thank you for response to me econsultation telling me to take hrt at a 50% reduced dose. I’m very concerned and hugely anxious that my hrt is being reduced without discussion with me
Whilst I’m not against the idea of reducing or trying transdermal hrt at some point - in face it was me who suggested this when I changed from Femoston Conti to try Evorel gel/utrogestan 6 months ago - I feel this should happen as part of a discussed and collaborative treatment plan which takes account of my general health and life situation at the time. I’m currently living with pain, side effects, fatigue and extensive periodontal issues which are being treated with limited success. It’s really important to me that I have stability around at least one area, namely hrt. For 6 weeks now, after reverting back to Femoson Conti 5/1using supplies I had left, this aspect of my health is now stable again following 5 months of hellish menopause symptoms.
So, whilst I understand the slightly elevated risks of taking oral hrt and would like to move away from it, now is not the best time for me to do this and to reiterate, I would like this to be discussed with me.
I’m happy to attend an appointment but I was trying to avoid taking up a valuable doctors appointment not to mention the difficulty of getting time off work to attend a lot having of medical and dental appointments recently. Please note I only have three weeks of Femoston Conti left.
Regarding the note from the doctor on the econsult:
As with all medications it is advisable to take them at the lowest possible strength for the shortest possible time’.
I would rather not taken even an aspirin, however my understanding (and the Portsmouth menopause specialist I saw confirmed this), is that according to NICE guidelines:
Since we cannot predict how long symptoms will last, there should be no arbitrary limits for duration of use of HRT and previously held views that HRT should be stopped after 2 to 5 years or at the age of 60 are not backed up
Also Ruth Devlin who you cite on your website says:
For a long time now many GPs have taken women off HRT as a safety precaution in relation to heart and breast health but research shows that women can now remain on HRT indefinitely
https://www.letstalkmenopause.co.uk/post/hormones-do-we-don-t-we-and-the-risks-re-breast-and-heart-healthhttps://www.portsdowngrouppractice.co.uk/help-and-support-service-types/menopause/Whilst Dr Louise Newson, menopause specialist states
Women taking HRT should have an annual review to ensure they are still getting benefit, but it is no longer about taking the lowest dose for the shortest time”]
https://d2931px9t312xa.cloudfront.net/menopausedoctor/files/information/363/Safe HRT prescribing.pdf
Just to reiterate I’m willing to consider reducing in the future but would like to have a say in my treatment plan and have other health O(and life) factors taken into account.
You appear to be requesting another blood test - can I know why this is? On my patient record, I seem to be being asked to have another thyroid test? This was done and came back normal (two weeks ago)"