HI Witchinghour
Your doc should not be going by age at all! This is really irresponsible if you are going through a very premature menopause! I presume you have had this (ie that you are peri-menopausal) diagnosed through blood tests? And if that is the case you should not have to have a private prescription at all!! The NHS should be treating you.
So I would say - if your periods became very irregular, your doc should have carried out blood tests as per the NICE Guidelines and the advice on this website:
https://www.menopausematters.co.uk/pm-investigations.php "
in women in whom Premature ovarian insufficiency (POI) is suspected, then measurement of Follicle Stimulating Hormone (FSH) is useful and, if raised, should be repeated around six weeks later. When the ovaries have failed, estrogen level will be low and consequently, FSH level will rise since its level is controlled by a feedback mechanism involving estrogen"
Once premature menopause has been diagnosed, then of course they should be treating you with HRT (or the contraceptive pill which provides oestrogen). To me this is the first thing that should have happened. No question.
A different point about a private prescription - but which should not need to apply in your case - after one private consultation, one should be able to request that the consultant writes to your GP with their recomendations and the prescription. This happened to me with testosterone. IN 2015 I went privately because the NICE Guidelines had not been released and the private consultant prescribed T and wrote to my GP. Since the first private prescription I have been getting it locally on NHS.
So - the prescription of testosterone may not necessarily be followed by your GP as it would be discretionary and some GPs are nervous - but definitely the regular hRT.
Also re testosterone - I'm interested that you have also been prescribed this even privately, at a young age and I wonder what symptoms led this to be prescribed - or is it standard at the private docs you went to? Have your T levels been tested?
Hurdity x