Hiya, PALS is Patient Advice and Liaison Service - an independent advice and advocacy service. Worth giving them a ring perhaps.
That’s such a shame about your appointment yesterday. The gynaecologist sounds like he needs serious refresher training in bedside manner.
You are absolutely within your rights to have a hysteroscopy done under GA, if you want to. It is completely your decision and your consent. Gynae should have made that very clear yesterday.
That said, he is right that you might tolerate it very well awake, if you didn’t find the attempts to do the biopsy too painful. They use a different instrument to open up your cervix gently, so it won’t be a struggle like yesterday. They can put in the Mirena coil at the same time as doing the hysteroscopy, if you choose to have one. Also they will stop if it becomes too painful.
It is really disappointing that the gynae couldn’t take time to explain all these things properly and give you the facts you need to make informed choices!
Oh and ask your GP for Vagifem and/or Ovestin for vaginal/vulval dryness, it really works.