Pop your symptoms into the search box and you will see how many women suffer from this,have you tried hrt? I don't take it personally but it could help with your anxiety,which it sounds like you have,especially if you're on edge going to bed ,there are lots of things out there,to try,CBD gummies really helped me, also started on Vit D with K2 which has helped with my sleep. Could you ask your Dr to check your vitamin levels?