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[SarahT]

Oh at least you are calmer then....But  I would happily start a fund on this forum to buy the sledgehammer for you! Glad to see your spirit kicking in.😘

[Nas]

Yep, “ thing” won’t get the better of me! Think my OH has a sythe in the shed. That will do won’t it? 

[suzysunday]

At least you are a bit closer to getting your body well.  Not too sure about attacking it with a scythe though!   Probably better to leave it to the professionals!  It's horrible getting prodded and disturbed like that.  It's good you are signing off work.   Thinking of you and good thoughts xx

[Nas]

Thanks suzy,
I can lend the professionals the scythe then? 

Will definitely message you this week. X

[suzysunday]

Only when I feel up to it.  Your health is the most important thing.  Look after yourself x

[Cookie25]

Sending love and positivity your way Nas   

[Penguin]

Thanks everyone 
Well, still no date ( although they say 3 weeks !) and no lung results ( being chased up!).

Met the surgeon and nurse specialist at the Christie hospital. Pre op is Monday.

Planning on going off sick on Monday, I’ve had enough and am tired.

Will update as and when things happen. For now, it seems a bit more waiting! 
X

Just popping on to check on you Nas, that must be annoying re more waiting. But sounds like op will be timed regardless of lung result which is good as they just need to get on with it now, get the "thing" out and rid you of pain.

I think you are doing the right thing re work tbh,  especially in the lead up to the op and given the pain you are in,  I don't know how you've carried on as long as you have, you come across as very strong which will stand you in good strad when recovering. Although perhaps it has been better from a mental health perspective to keep busy. What'll you do to keep going at home until the op? It may help to have a rough list of things you can dip in and out of. I know when I am anxious and worried about things I can get into 'freeze' mode which basically means sitting on my sofa and doing nothing except doom scrolling and worrying myself more. Maybe some practical things like batch cooking for when you get out of hospital etc, sorting out any admin that has built up so you are on top of it, anything you can do in prep to make it easier for yourself when you get put of hospital.

Really hope you get lung result soon, I guess they'll call you in when they do or have you already got another appointment booked?

And I'll happily contribute to the scythe but would no way watch a movie about it 😱

[Nas]

Hi penguin
How’s it going?

Well, Ive sent the email to work re: my intended sick leave. I’m glad I’ve done it because as much as I love working with the kids, the pace is too much for me right now, physically and mentally.

What will I do at home? All the things you suggested. Batch cooking, ironing, cleaning the house, groom my two house rabbits, life admin, job hunting. Yep all those things. To be honest they will be full time jobs in themselves, as I have  to stop and rest every so often.

It’s funny you mentioned coming across as strong. The breast cancer diagnosis of 14 years ago, made me very resilient to pain and trauma.

I do not know what the surgeon is going to find once on the operating table and what additional tests/ treatment I will need. But that Christie hospital is amazing and I know I will be made better.

They have to prioritise patient treatment hence why I’m three weeks waiting. Three weeks will make no difference to my outcome now. But three weeks to a patient with spread of disease, could make a huge difference to her outcome.

I will get the scythe ready and we can all have a go at chopping the “ thing” ! 😱😱😬

[Nas]

Oh crikey, have I done the right thing in taking sick leave? 

[Jules]

I hope things move quickly. The waiting is hard. If you need information or you want to jog them along, do it. My experience lately is that you've to be a pest and you get somewhere.  Sounds like you're in the best hands at Christies

[suzysunday]

Only when I feel up to it.  Your health is the most important thing.  Look after yourself x

Just seen I put when I feel up to it, of course I meant when you feel up to it.  Sorry! X

[Penguin]

Oh crikey, have I done the right thing in taking sick leave? 

I think read back on your previous podt, you've definitely done the right thing and you can always go back if and when you feel up to it!

Yes for sure something like that would make you stronger and more resilient. Remember you have been through that and came out the other side, and you'll do the same with this too.

Your list of things at home sound good. I didn't know you had house rabbits, do they like to cuddle on your lap?

[Mary G]

Sorry to hear your results were not ready Nas but you do at least have some progress now and the operation sounds like it's not far off.

Good idea to concentrate on the preparations because you need plenty of rest after a hysterectomy and definitely no lifting.

Please keep us updated.

[Nas]

Oh crikey, have I done the right thing in taking sick leave? 

I think read back on your previous podt, you've definitely done the right thing and you can always go back if and when you feel up to it!

Yes for sure something like that would make you stronger and more resilient. Remember you have been through that and came out the other side, and you'll do the same with this too.

Your list of things at home sound good. I didn't know you had house rabbits, do they like to cuddle on your lap?

One of the rabbits loves a cuddle Penguin, whilst the other is a bit less human friendly (she was a rescue ) but loves her bun friend.
Plenty to do I guess, but whether it will get done, who knows! Feel a bit in limbo now, but after Monday, anthing could happen surgery wise.

How are you anyway? x

Mary, I will try to prepare and get the house in order. I am so excited to have this op! Next year will (hopefully) be pain free and that will just be fantastic!

[Penguin]

Oh crikey, have I done the right thing in taking sick leave? 

I think read back on your previous podt, you've definitely done the right thing and you can always go back if and when you feel up to it!

Yes for sure something like that would make you stronger and more resilient. Remember you have been through that and came out the other side, and you'll do the same with this too.

Your list of things at home sound good. I didn't know you had house rabbits, do they like to cuddle on your lap?

One of the rabbits loves a cuddle Penguin, whilst the other is a bit less human friendly (she was a rescue ) but loves her bun friend.
Plenty to do I guess, but whether it will get done, who knows! Feel a bit in limbo now, but after Monday, anthing could happen surgery wise.

How are you anyway? x

Mary, I will try to prepare and get the house in order. I am so excited to have this op! Next year will (hopefully) be pain free and that will just be fantastic!

Oh yes it's pre op on Monday isn't it. I was thinking, I'd be inclined to say I could take a Cancellation if one came up,  could you do that? Maybe easier now you'll be off work anyway.

I'm okay thanks, well been a bit rubbish this week as having difficulty with DS who is being assessed for sensory / motor issues and its been a hard week with behaviour directed at me after he has held it together all day at school. But in general am okay, back on hrt as clearly need to be!