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Emzib0b

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Re: How am I going to do this ??
« Reply #105 on: October 27, 2023, 11:20:29 AM »

Hi Nas,

I just wanted to drop by and wish you the very best. You helped me out with a couple of things earlier this year. Wishing you the very best for your operation and recovery.

Em x
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Mary G

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Re: How am I going to do this ??
« Reply #106 on: October 27, 2023, 11:22:11 AM »

I'm also wishing you all the very best for next week Nas.  Hopefully the results will be back quickly and then a date fixed for the hysterectomy.

Please keep us posted.
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sheila99

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Re: How am I going to do this ??
« Reply #107 on: October 27, 2023, 12:05:20 PM »

Sorry I missed the middle of this thread. I'm so sorry about your diagnosis. Good luck for Tuesday. You'll be in good hands at the Christie, everything crossed for a positive outcome.
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discogirl

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Re: How am I going to do this ??
« Reply #108 on: October 27, 2023, 02:53:59 PM »

Hi Nas

I also want to wish you the very best xxx
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Nas

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Re: How am I going to do this ??
« Reply #109 on: November 01, 2023, 12:34:01 PM »

Lung fluid biopsy done.
Bit sore but okay.

Mentally exhausted already.
I just want my surgery now.

Hope you are all well  :)
X
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Sage 🍃

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Re: How am I going to do this ??
« Reply #110 on: November 01, 2023, 12:53:24 PM »

I was waiting for you to update us. Fingers crossed, sweetie 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 :-*
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Penguin

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Re: How am I going to do this ??
« Reply #111 on: November 01, 2023, 01:06:40 PM »

Glad to hear it went okay, when will you get the results?

How are you faring otherwise?
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SarahT

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Re: How am I going to do this ??
« Reply #112 on: November 01, 2023, 02:15:43 PM »

Hey Nas,
Thanks for the update, you must be a funny mix of worry, relief  it's done and physically and mentally knackered. Don't forget it's ok to acknowledge just how much is going on right now,your health plus normal (?) life. Remember just to sit down and breathe. Much as we can be, we're with you xx😘
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Nas

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Re: How am I going to do this ??
« Reply #113 on: November 01, 2023, 02:51:16 PM »

I don’t know how I feel.
In limbo i guess.
Can’t focus at work; can’t focus at home. Sleep is caput. Worried sick about this damm fluid.

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SarahT

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Re: How am I going to do this ??
« Reply #114 on: November 01, 2023, 03:20:29 PM »

I think Nas you are justified in feeling like this. Huge stuff going on. Maybe don't try to fit yourself in an emotional category. You're going to be all over the place. Don't be forced to stick that Happy Smiley Everything Is Fine Face that we all use at times. Because yes,  we all do that one.
Of course you are worried and scared. It's big scary stuff. All your feelings are valid,especially with your previous health history. But the ball has been set in motion. Maybe that in itself is a No Turning Back feeling too.
 Take the tiny breaks in each day as you can. Talk to whoever you need to,breathe girl and know it's ok to feel this way. You are amazing, but you are human too..x
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Nas

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Re: How am I going to do this ??
« Reply #115 on: November 01, 2023, 03:30:50 PM »

Thanks partner  :)
Just feel mighty useless right now. Useless in work and useless at home.

What ever they find, they will have a plan going forward, won’t they? Nothing is going to be left  to chance.

Okay, here we go then….x
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Penguin

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« Reply #116 on: November 01, 2023, 03:39:32 PM »

Thanks partner  :)
Just feel mighty useless right now. Useless in work and useless at home.

What ever they find, they will have a plan going forward, won’t they? Nothing is going to be left  to chance.


Okay, here we go then….x


They will definitely have a plan, and there'll be more than one person involved in the plan too, an experienced team, the best minds coming at it from different angles to work out the best treatment combination for you. Once you get the outcome of the fluid, I bet things will move really quickly. I totally get how you feel about being in limbo at the moment. Hopefully this the last piece of the jigsaw that they need. When do you expect to hear next? X
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Nas

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Re: How am I going to do this ??
« Reply #117 on: November 01, 2023, 03:51:05 PM »

Hey penguin, you are totally right. There will be more than one person involved in the plan.

I like the idea of “the best minds”  :)

I don’t know when to expect to hear penguin. I’m hoping once these fluid results are in, Christie hospital will contact me; maybe this week, maybe next. X
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Penguin

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« Reply #118 on: November 01, 2023, 04:11:22 PM »

Hey penguin, you are totally right. There will be more than one person involved in the plan.

I like the idea of “the best minds”  :)

I don’t know when to expect to hear penguin. I’m hoping once these fluid results are in, Christie hospital will contact me; maybe this week, maybe next. X

Keeping everything crossed for you to hear this week and that next time you post you'll have a date xx
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Re: How am I going to do this ??
« Reply #119 on: November 01, 2023, 04:54:13 PM »

I hope you are coping as well as you can and getting support from your family.   I hope the fluid results come in soon so that you can focus on getting a date for the operation.  This feeling of being in limbo must be so stressful so be kind to yourself x
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