Not just flexibility, but also the acknowledgement that the patient is the expert when it comes to their own body - how we feel, what side-effects we get, it's all subjective. Yet we are obliged to hand all our trust and power over to healthcare professionals, and hope we get one that respects that.
To answer my own question, no it hasn't got easier - I've struggled with Cyclogest, even 50mcg daily is too much after 5 days due to headaches, blurred vision, mood changes and fatigue. 100 mcg every other day results in feeling flat, detached, pointless on the 'second' day. Either way it undoes most of the positives that the oestrogen achieves. I've not even spoken to a GP for 3 months, they sent me a review date for next March. I was told by the receptionist when I asked for the Cyclogest prescription (I had to ask - they were quite ok to leave me on oestrogen only until I pointed out after 4 months that this wasn't ok) that if I didn't get on with Cyclogest then I had to stop the lot. Messages relayed by a GP via a receptionist.
I just feel drained by the whole experience, probably mostly drained by the progesterone actually. Having spent 40-odd years dreading periods and their onset, and saying 'roll on menopause' I've tried my best to get through it without HRT, but that resulted in me having to stop work for two years due to chronic migraine, and subsequently only being able to work limited hours due to absolute lack of energy as well. Oestrogen alone was good, migraines have lessened to such a degree and I started to get some energy back but at a cost of losing hair at quite a rate and then having to take progesterone which has just negated any positives. It even stops me being able to exercise, I just feel fatigued and breathless. I can't risk feeling so low, as I start thinking 'what's the point?' so I'm cutting down the Evorel and going to see if I can at least tolerate 50mcg Cyclogest every other day until I can speak to a GP.