My anxiety was caused by low oestrogen, it was cured by hrt. Of course there are other non meno related causes too. Where are you in your meno journey? And is anxiety a long standing issue or did it come or get worse with peri? If it did hrt is more likely help. I'm not sure about the urge to wee, I think it's more likely to be cystitis or VA though of course systemic oestrogen can also help va. Digestive issues can also be oestrogen related. Have a look at the 'advice for husbands' pinned post, there are many other symptoms which help you decide. It may help to think of hrt as replacing the hormones you no longer produce yourself (Major design flaw) rather than medication.