Hi Carabelle
Sorry to hear that the HRT you tried didn't suit you but it does sound as though the oestrogen worked in stopping flushes?
If you could tell us a bit more about where you are in menopause this would help us advise ie how long since your last natural period before starting HRT? I am assumung at least 12 months as you were given Evorel conti ( though sometimes docs get it wrong!).? Also how old you are?
Maybe that particular HRT preparation didn;t suit you - perhpas because of the progestogen - some women are more sensitive to continuous combined HRT ie daily progestogen, or one particualr progestogen. We can help you choose a different type that might suit you. There are lots to choose from - see the menu and here:
https://www.menopausematters.co.uk/postmeno.phpIn terms of alternatives - really unless you are medically contra-indicated, nothing is guaranteed to work other than HRT. There are some anti-depressants given to some women who are unable to take HRT due to oestrogen receptive breast cancer for example, but they are not as highly effective as HRT and really not recommended if you are able to take HRT. Here are some prescribable non HRT preparations:
https://www.menopausematters.co.uk/prescribed.phpRe Black Cohosh - mixed reviews about this but not guaranteed to work - maybe mostly placebo. I had some when peri-menopausal and took it for months and thought it worked when it was in fact my own hormones going up and down! Once I got cloer to menopause they didn't work at all and only HRT did (which I've been on for around 15 years).
Magensium is one of those things that some women swear by - but I'm not au fait with its use for sleep and whether this has been proeprly tried and tested re evidence from trials - others will know better.
That being said there is a section on alternatives to HRT on the main forum if you look at the menu - see links here:
https://www.menopausematters.co.uk/remedies.php and here:
https://www.menopausematters.co.uk/phytoestrogens.php though the information hasn't been updated for a while.
Also if you want to talk about a specific non HRT treatment for menopause then there is a board for this so you could ask on there.
Natural remedies - you can't beat making sure you are a healthy weight, taking regular exercise and having a good varied balanced diet with plenty of fresh foods, fruit and vegetables and reducing processed foods and refined carbs and added sugars, as well as reducing alcohol consumption and giving up smoking ( for those who do!).
However I must stress again that HRT is the first line of treatment and there are many experienced women who can help advise you if you would like to try something different.
Hope this helps

Hurdity x