Also I too am just at the stage where I am getting longer gaps (unless the gap is 16 days that is🤬). Hoping that they space out now more for me. I am 47 next week. Missed one entirely last autumn. Last gap was 35 days. Can also be 28 days ……frustrating!!
I think the longer periods can come after longer gaps sometimes
I missed December (first one ever) so a gap of 55 days. January then was my usual 5-6 days long. Then nothing for 38 days which was followed by this long 5 week one
All last year it was like pick a number for the gaps in between. Anything from 14 days to 27. Now seem to be going longer, for now anyway
It is very frustrating

Mine also are much lighter than they’ve ever been
I’ve been so worried and thought it would go on forever

I’m 54 in July so hoping I’ve not much longer to go?
Hopefully won’t be so stressed about it next time, if there is a next time xx