Hello Abasto,
It's not easy trying to explain all the varied and distressing symptoms with peri\meno, yes there is a lot to think about, but well done on insisting you get your hrt set up that day, not to wait around.
My first few posts on this wonderful forum were to say I think I am going mad, so I am sure many can identify with how you feel. As you have probably seen from others,it can take a while to settle in hrt, but there are so many here far more experienced than me who can offer all the advice and support whatever questions you come up with.
With regards to your facial skin, am not sure what you problems are, but have had awful bouts of sensitive, hot red skin that flares up. I switched to Aveeno Calm and Restore and it has really calms things down, kind of cools my skin too. Everyone is different but this works for me.
Take care and yes - good luck