Hello to you,
I can only say of my own experiences. I only began hrt in September, on estradot 50 and utrogestan. Personally I did not get on well with it, my mood swings have always been very cyclical, and seemed worse with the utrogestan. I tried for only 2 months before deciding to go for the mirena coil instead, and after it took a few weeks to settle, this has been a good thing for me.
I am sure that maybe I panicked a bit, I seemed to be in a right constant upheaval physically and emotionally, maybe I did not give myself enough time to let things settle, but I can only give you my personal experience.
There are many women out there who take utrogestan as part of their own hrt regime and it seems to work very well for them.
I do hope someone can come along with a more positive response.
I know we are all highly individual, what works for one may not for another, and there does seem to be some tweaking needed at times as things alter.
Hope someone can step in and reassure you
Hugs