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EmzHormones

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Laparoscopic Hysterectomy
« on: October 10, 2022, 04:51:28 PM »

Hi all, thank you for letting me join. 😊

My story… I am 47 years old and have 2 older children. I’ve been suffering since I was 26 but was very much dismissed as it’s just one of those things.

I won’t bore you with all the long details on my first post.

But within the last year my symptoms really took a turn. Not only was I/am I still flooding daily with heavy periods but they found endometriosis and said it’s stage 4.

I’ve got my surgery booked for the 31st of this month and must admit I am bricking it.

There are so many different groups on socials and the more I read the worse I am getting.

My work are not being fab either. I got a discipline meeting due to sickness. Then I had OT assessment which is went in my support, but the Management have not been great.

Would be great to speak to you ladies who have had this surgery.

I feel lost. Like what do I take in my hospital bag, pre operation 19th. Will I have a catheter. When can you shower or bath?

What is the healing process?

Also what happens with my HRT. I’ve had my Utrogestan stopped due to blood clot risk. But I am still on Everol patches.

Thanks for listening.

Thanks for listening.
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Flossieteacake

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Re: Laparoscopic Hysterectomy
« Reply #1 on: October 10, 2022, 05:06:44 PM »

Hello EmzHormones. Welcome to the forum. I am sorry I have not been through this myself but I just wanted to welcome you and let you know I have read your post.

My friend has endo and I understand the pain of trying to get a diagnosis only to be dismissed. I find with the internet, people will often only talk about the negative experiences they have had. I wish you all the best with your surgery and hopefully somebody who has been through it will post soon.
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EmzHormones

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Re: Laparoscopic Hysterectomy
« Reply #2 on: October 10, 2022, 05:43:50 PM »

Hi 👋

Thank you for replying. I hope I am replying correctly.

Endo really is so undiagnosed and recognised sometimes. Just a complete battle.

Thank you for your kind reply. I agree it does seem a lot of posts are about the worst things that happen.

I am dreading it all at the same time as wanting to feel better.
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Flossieteacake

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Re: Laparoscopic Hysterectomy
« Reply #3 on: October 10, 2022, 05:52:10 PM »

Hi 👋

Thank you for replying. I hope I am replying correctly.

Endo really is so undiagnosed and recognised sometimes. Just a complete battle.

Thank you for your kind reply. I agree it does seem a lot of posts are about the worst things that happen.

I am dreading it all at the same time as wanting to feel better.

You are so welcome. You have replied correctly. :) It can take time to navigate forums so you have done well.

I totally understand why you are dreading it. If it improves the horrific pain endo causes then it will be so worthwhile.
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EmzHormones

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Re: Laparoscopic Hysterectomy
« Reply #4 on: October 10, 2022, 06:02:18 PM »

Yay 😁 who’d have thought this 47 year old forgetmenot can get a forum right. Haha.

Definitely that. The pain has controlled my life for far too long now. I know I’ll be plunged into full menopause as they’re taking everything but hopefully HRT will control that.
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Amazing grace

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Re: Laparoscopic Hysterectomy
« Reply #5 on: October 10, 2022, 06:28:17 PM »

Hi, I had a laparoscopic hysterectomy, the healing process still takes a while even though there's not much on the outside the inside still takes as long, it's very important to follow all the instructions given by the hospital, I felt fine by 6 weeks post op, you will have a catheter which is put in during the op, mine was removed the following morning, i only had paracetamol and ibuprofen for pain relief to take home I only needed that for 4 days post op, the worst pain was from the gas they pumped you with to separate the organs, I was told not to shower for 48 hrs after, and no baths for 6 weeks, the hospital with give you a detailed list of what to take with you and what each week of recovery involves and what you can and can't do within those weeks of recovery , this is given at the pre op appointment, at my 6 week post op check my consultant said, it's amazing you can't even tell you have had an operation that's how well I healed but I stuck to the instructions, be prepared to spend lots of time doing absolutely nothing in those 6 weeks it gets boring but patience pays off with how well you heal, I was very scared of having a hysterectomy I delayed it for years but I had no choice in the end mine was for fibroids and relentless bleeding that was flooding and painful, don't be scared it's honestly not that bad and I've never regretted having it done, I was glad to be free of the pain and bleeding, I had mine at 43 and I'm 49 now and have had no complications or problems, I don't know about the hrt because I couldn't take it before due to my fibroids they said it would increase there size, but I started it straight after surgery, I went in on a Thursday morning at 10am, went to theatre at 1pm was home by 6pm on the Friday, wishing you the best of luck don't worry you will be absolutely fine xx
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Wrensong

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Re: Laparoscopic Hysterectomy
« Reply #6 on: October 10, 2022, 06:40:11 PM »

Hi EmzHormones & welcome.  I'm sorry to know you've had such a long time suffering & can understand how apprehensive you feel about surgery, but hopefully this will be the start of a much better life for you.   When you go for your pre-op assessment you should have the chance to ask them any questions & I would expect the hospital to supply written information about what to take in with you, what to expect while you are an inpatient & how best to take care of yourself afterwards.  You could also ring the gynae's secretary before the pre-op if it would help you to have that sort of info now. 

The links here from the RCOG give general info about laparascopic hysterectomy & aftercare, but I hope members who have had the surgery for endometriosis will be along soon to help.  I have had ovaries removed but kept my uterus & my op was postmenopause so a different situation to yours in terms of effects of losing ovaries.  The third link to a Newson Health info sheet on endometriosis mentions the importance of testosterone replacement & I would discuss this with your gynae if it hasn't already been raised.

I hope you feel much better for the op, given time to recover. :hug:
Wx

P.S I now see Amazing grace has posted while I was writing this so apologies if I've repeated anything she's said.

https://www.rcog.org.uk/for-the-public/menopause-and-later-life/hysterectomy/

https://www.rcog.org.uk/for-the-public/browse-all-patient-information-leaflets/laparoscopic-hysterectomy-recovering-well-leaflet/

https://d2931px9t312xa.cloudfront.net/menopausedoctor/files/information/519/Endometriosis%20and%20HRT%20v21-02.pdf
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EmzHormones

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Re: Laparoscopic Hysterectomy
« Reply #7 on: October 10, 2022, 06:53:53 PM »

Thank you both ladies for your wonderful replies.

I’ve been really worried (silly I know) about the catheter as I’ve been told it hurts.

I will deffo follow the advice of 6 weeks. I am actually wondering if I could push a little over that to take me through to Christmas and then return to work after then.

Unfortunately I can’t take ibuprofen as I had asthma and it causes a reaction.

I will be asking lots of questions at the pre operation.

Thank you also for the links I shall have a look through them.

Did you ladies spend your time healing in bed or downstairs? I am a nightmare for staying still but I know I won’t help myself if I try to do things xx
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Amazing grace

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Re: Laparoscopic Hysterectomy
« Reply #8 on: October 10, 2022, 07:16:26 PM »

Hi, they will offer you an alternative to ibuprofen if you are unable to take it, I was dreading the catheter but you can't feel it at all, was still under the effects of general anesthetic to know it was there and was removed at 6 am the following morning, I too find it hard not to do anything, I spent my time in bed upstairs, I had lots of Netflix box sets to watch, and lots of books to read, I went downstairs a few times a day, but absolutely didn't do anything, the first few days I slept alot but after that when the tired feeling went I felt physically well and normal but don't let that fool you into doing anything, and you can deffo push returning to work later, 6 weeks is a recovery guide, the pre op assessment told me depending on your type of work it can be up to 3 months if your job is very physical, I was a prison officer and had 3 months off even though I was fully healed at 6 weeks, the hospital gave me my sick note to sign me off from work, forgot to say in my first reply that physio therapy also will see you before you are discharged from hospital with everything you need to do post op xx
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EmzHormones

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Re: Laparoscopic Hysterectomy
« Reply #9 on: October 10, 2022, 08:01:16 PM »

Ahh okey perfect. I was thinking paracetamol probably won’t cut it.

I’ve not got a tv in my room, but wondering if I now need one. Got my smart device though.

I’ll promise myself not to try and do anything. My hubby is all prepared and has warned me to behave and just get better.

That would be really good if work could start new year. I work for a Housing Association some of my role can be virtual but there is travelling to make visits.

Thanks for the catheter reassurance. I really appreciate xx
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Wrensong

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Re: Laparoscopic Hysterectomy
« Reply #10 on: October 10, 2022, 08:28:21 PM »

It's only natural to worry EmzHormones so you are not at all silly for that.  Amazing grace has given some very good advice & her experience is more relevant than mine as only my ovaries were removed.   Like both of you I find it very hard to be inactive for any length of time after surgery but it is really important to follow the advice the hospital gives, even if you are surprised by how well you feel within a short while.  There will be lots of internal healing that needs to take place & resting, together with a gradual increase in whatever exercise & activity the hospital advises, will be the best way to ensure your return to full fitness goes exactly as it should.

I also can't take Ibuprofen (or codeine or morphine) but have been fine with paracetamol alone following other more major surgery than the BSO, but as Amazing grace says, the hospital will make sure you are looked after with appropriate pain relief.  This should come up at pre-op, either with the nurse who does your assessment or the anaesthetist if you get to see one that day & it will probably be raised again on the day you are admitted. 

I always take along notes/questions to be sure I don't forget to raise anything I feel is important & knowing I've done this makes me feel well prepared & reduces the inevitable stress.

Be sure to take good care of yourself, you have suffered more than enough already & deserve to be well enough to live your best life.
Wx
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EmzHormones

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Re: Laparoscopic Hysterectomy
« Reply #11 on: October 11, 2022, 07:21:29 AM »

Thank you so so much ladies. So glad I joined and asked.

It’s nice to talk with ladies who have experienced the same.

Woken with a fuzzy head today. Insomnia big style think I over stimulated myself 🙈 not idea when I’ve got training all day with work.

I will definitely take advice and take things slowly. I want to be well. Not prolong things.

Thank you again. I shall update you ladies  how things are going. Xx
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Gnatty

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Re: Laparoscopic Hysterectomy
« Reply #12 on: October 11, 2022, 08:22:24 AM »

Lots of great advice here, just a couple of thoughts. Don't allow yourself to get constipated after the op. So lots of water, fruit, magnesium before bed works a treat. They will probably give you laxatives the first few days anyway but going forward take care. Also definitely definitely get hold of testosterone. You are already on oestrogen but when ovaries are taken testosterone is critical. X
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EmzHormones

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Re: Laparoscopic Hysterectomy
« Reply #13 on: October 11, 2022, 12:00:12 PM »

Thank you for the advise. I definitely don’t want to be constipated. How do I go about getting testosterone? Will the specialist sort that? Thank you xx
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Wrensong

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Re: Laparoscopic Hysterectomy
« Reply #14 on: October 12, 2022, 11:00:35 AM »

I would ask the gynae who's doing your surgery in the first instance, or whoever currently prescribes your HRT.  Failing that, you may need to ask for an appointment with a menopause clinic.   There's some reading about it in the following 2 links & the third is to a podcast.  Lots of women on here use it & will be happy to answer any questions.

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0378512213000121

https://balance-menopause.com/uploads/2022/01/Testosterone.pdf

https://www.balance-menopause.com/menopause-library/118-testosterone-not-just-icing-on-the-cake-with-rachel-dawber/

Sending all good vibes & please let us know how you get on.
Wx
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