Vicky just because your with a private clinic does not mean you have to go with what they tell you, and just because it's a private clinic does not mean they are 100% right about treatment all the time either, have you considered just talking to your gp about it, only my opinion but an NHS gp has nothing to profit by treating you, I know they get alot of stick for not being great with menopause issues, but at least it would be a 2nd opinion, did you ever have a test that actually comfirmed you are menopausal, you have been on alot of hormones in a short space of time, i wonder how safe that really is, if it was me I would seek a 2nd opinion from a completely different clinic or get my gp to give there view on the whole hrt situation.